Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Livin' Leaves

Well, fall is officially here, and there's no shortage of leaves in our yard. Lucy and I raked up a big pile this past weekend and spent about an hour and a half just lounging around in them and enjoying the unseasonably warm October temps. She loved it, and so did I!


 
 

Sunday, October 02, 2011

Tunes on 2s
Who I Am - Jessica Andrews (2001)

I am Rosemary's granddaughter
The spitting image of my father
And when the day is done
My mama's still my biggest fan

Sometimes
I'm clueless and I'm clumsy
But I've got friends who love me
And they know where I stand

It's all a part of me...
That's who I am

Listen/watch here.

Several months ago a cousin of mine posted some lyrics to this song on Facebook, and it reminded me of how much I love it. For you see, this cousin of mine and I (and many others) are indeed Rosemary's granddaughters. I'm more a spitting image of my mother; and I consider my dad one of my biggest fans, so reverse that line and it still works. The clumsy lyric reminds me of a story my Grandma Mardie still likes to tell, about how when I was about Lucy's age I would stumble and say "I such a clutz!" And I have to say, I have some of the greatest friends a girl could ever ask for.

But certainly, it is being the granddaughter of Rosemary Overmohle that makes this song give me goosebumps every time. Losing her in the 2003 was a hard thing for many of us. I remember a couple of weeks after this song was re-introduced to me through that Facebook post, I was driving to work on a Sunday night after putting Lucy to bed, trying to get ahead on my workload. I really didn't want to go in, but felt I had to. I was feeling tired and  just plain overwhelmed. Things were just a bit too much for me in that moment. I was listening to the country station on low, my mind racing and my emotions just under the surface. Somewhere along I-94 I heard the opening notes to this song. I turned it up and burst into stress-relieving tears. I am one of those people who believes that the people who have left us send us little gifts, and this was truly one. What were the odds, this song from 2001 coming on the radio at that moment?

I was going to be alright.

I am proud to be Rosemary's granddaughter.

Thanks Jessica Andrews, wherever you are.

There is one photo that I have of my Grandma Rosemary and I. Unfortunately, I have put it in such a safe place that I cannot find it. The best I can do is a photo of the photo, which I put on a sign on my back when I walked in the Breast Cancer 3-Day in her memory (2004).





Saturday, October 01, 2011

Goodbye, Summer

As the season changes I thought I’d provide a little Lucy update.
In early June she had her 2-year check-up and weighed 33.5 pounds and was 35.5 inches tall, both 97th percentile. Over the summer she seems to have stretched out a bit, and gotten a little thinner (except the belly, she still has that!) When people see her, the most often remarks are “she’s really tall!” and “what a great smile!” She still has those great dimples, and her smile lights up her whole face. Her hair is really blonde, but underneath you can definitely see some dirty blonde/light brown. It will be interesting to see what happens when all those sun-soaked blonde locks fade over the winter.


 We’ve definitely seen some growth in her brainpower over the summer. One thing we have noticed in particular is her ability to recall/remember events. A few weeks after our vacation she randomly started talking about going to the Mississippi, feeding deer, and how funny the llama was. If you’re looking for something, she can usually tell you where she put it. She remembers names or words even if you’ve only mentioned it once (which makes watch what we say very carefully!) When we get to a certain intersection she knows which way to turn to go to Nathan’s house (her former daycare). She is also getting better at memorizing and can say a good portion of the alphabet, numbers 1-10 and all the words to “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star” and has been singing some other songs since she’s been at her new school. She's a little shy at first, but once she's comfortable, she'll talk your ear off!

With all of this fun stuff comes some pretty nasty attitude at times. We work hard on getting her to use a “nice voice” and saying please, not just demanding things. She definitely does not like to be told NO, but has no problem saying it to others. She’ll go into fits of crying for no apparent reason (complete with throwing herself on the floor), which lately has been managed by timeouts in her room. It’s hard to stay mad at her for long because she can be such an incredible sweetheart with her free-will hugs and kisses, putting a hand on the side of your face, or saying “I love you.” She’s very cute, but she knows it , too. She definitely knows how to manipulate and if throwing a fit doesn’t work, she will do her best to negotiate. “Just one more, OK?”


Lucy still takes an afternoon nap, and at night she is actually very good - we still count our lucky stars that we have such a good sleeper. She goes to bed around 8PM and usually needs a book or two to be read, then she climbs into her bed with a menagerie of dolls, stuffed animals and blankets. She started using a toddler bed with a rail a couple of months ago, and very rarely does she climb out once she's in for the night. She is pretty good in the mornings but likes to putz, so getting out the door can be pretty frustrating.

We are working on potty-training, although probably haven’t pressed it as much as we could. With the daycare transition I didn’t want to push it too hard. Now that we seem to be settling in I think we’ll work on it a little more. She has peed in her potty many times and gets 2 M&Ms as a treat if she does. On some occasions she has also told us when she needs to go, and wakes up dry from some naps. A couple of mornings last week she woke up pretty dry and then had a really big pee in the potty. Progress!

Lucy is still a pretty good eater, and she LOVES her milk. I'd say we've taken a step back on vegetables, but she hasn't met a fruit she doesn't like. Her favorite things to play with are: dolls, stuffed animals, BOOKS, her kitchen and play food, her “bike,” and anything that makes music. Her TV is still pretty limited to a few minutes in the morning or just before bed, but sometimes on the weekends we lay a blanket and pillows on the floor and watch a "princess" movie. She also likes to putz around outside and "help" with whatever we're doing, and she's fearless on a playground.



So that's our little Lu. Spunky, sassy, and smiley!