Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Take Me Out to the Ballgame

This past weekend we hosted Brandon's graduation party at our house. We set up in the garage and outside in the driveway. Unfortunately, it rained most of the afternoon...but we had fun anyway. The theme was "Take Me Out to the Ballgame." We had hot dogs, nachos, peanuts, Cracker Jacks, and baseball-shaped cookies.



It was a lot of work, but we had great help and Brandon really liked the party, so in my mind it was a hit. We even had some surprise visitors from my family - my Aunt Mary and part of her family, and my Uncle Bob and Aunt Beth! I was not expecting that. Thanks to everyone who helped make it a great day!

Monday, June 13, 2011

Goodbye to Little Gym (For Now)

Lucy had her final class of Little Gym yesterday. After 20 weeks in class, I can definitely say this little lady has grown. The first few weeks, I was wondering what I got myself into. The beginning of class is always mat time, with about 18 kids and with at least one parent each. It was overwhelming even for me at times, and Lucy hated it. She wouldn't do anything and wanted to be carried. Sometimes she would cry. Once we were able to roam around the gym and play on the equipment at our leisure, she was fine, but those first 15 minutes were pretty rough.

Slowly she progressed out of it, and now she runs alongside me during mat time. She still likes to hold my hand most of the time, but towards the end of class would also run alone when teacher encouraged all the kids to run with her. She was also terrified of the Air Track (large inflatable bouncy thing) at first, but by the end of the session would sit on it while it was being blown up, and run around, bounce across it, and jump off herself. She has learned to jump in place, jump off things, walk on a beam (with Mom's help), climb all over things, walk like a bear, and grab a bar, hang, and jump down by herself. I'd say she's also about 85% of the way to doing a somersault herself. Her confidence has soared, and while she's still a little hesitant around other kids, her social skills have also improved. It was amazing to watch.

Yesterday at the end of class they had a little ceremony. Teacher Lauren called each of the kids up to the awards podium, gave them a medal, and said a few words about them. Lucy was called last, and ran up for her "necklace." Teacher said Lucy only liked to do things when she liked to do them, but when she did, she was great at it. She also made reference to a session-long joke we had, about how Lucy would never give Teacher a high five. She had only done it twice in 20 weeks. But when Teacher Lauren put up her hand in front of all those people and asked for a high five, Lucy did it with gusto! Daddy was there to take pictures, and we were so proud of our little girl. What a fun time! We hope to get her in another class in the fall. Until then, the summer is all ours!

Getting a ride on the parachute (something else she'd never do before).
Climbing!

Climb up, grab the bar, swing, and jump!

She really was happier than this...but this is a trademark Lucy face!
Daddy bought a treat when she was done!

Cheese!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Mom's Weekend Away

I spent this weekend in Clear Lake, IA with five of my dearest and longest-known girlfriends. We wanted to get together for a 35th birthday celebration of sorts, a milestone which each of us has celebrated or will soon be celebrating. This trip has been on the books for almost a year, and it lived up to my expectations in every way.

We...
got pedicures
sat on the dock
mixed our own drinks
brainstormed 3-year-old birthday gifts
drank some fruity drinks on a bar patio
played cards
shared photos of our kids
shopped downtown
gave Facebook tutorials
drank some beer
took walks by the lake
ate a steak dinner
played online Price is Right
gazed at the stars
ate birthday cupcakes
slept in
showered without little hands banging on the door

Most of these things have a story attached to them; I can't even begin to tell you how much we laughed. There are also a few other things on the list that I can't tell you, because you know - what happens in Clear Lake, stays in Clear Lake...or possibly Mason City :) Most of the time was spent lounging around and chatting, with a drink typically in hand. I was reminded that every once in awhile it is okay to reconnect with old friends and reminisce...and to remember who I "used" to be, before I was a wife, mom, career woman..and how we have all so successfully transitioned into our chosen roles in life. I was also reminded what an outstanding group of friends I have, and how lucky I am to have these ladies in my life. They know me well, and although we don't see each other as often as we might like, when we do get together it feels like we were just together yesterday. Old memories are sweet, but new memories are even sweeter (and funnier, in some cases!) Love you, ladies!




Friday, June 03, 2011

To My Husband

Five years ago today under a beautiful sky we said “I do,” surrounded by friends and family.

Life is ever-changing…and the past five years have been no exception, starting out in a duplex with bright green carpet. We bought a house, got a dog, Brandon moved in with us, Lucy was born, both of us changed jobs in one form or another. Grandparents have passed, power lines have fallen, windows have been replaced, a new driver is on the road, daycare has been an adventure, rugby games have been played and watched. Life is ever-changing…and it’s certainly not about us anymore. Just this week, our daughter turned two and a son graduated from high school. Tonight we will carve out a little time to celebrate each other.

Life is ever-changing…but there is no one I’d rather navigate through it all with than you.

You are my love, my partner, my friend. My rock in waves of change. Here’s to many, many more years side-by-side.

Love,
Jess

Thursday, June 02, 2011

We Have a Graduate!

Brandon graduated from high school tonight!

This was definitely an education for me. The Hopkins High School Class of 2011 was over 850 strong, with 29 countries of birth represented in the graduates. The ceremony was actually very efficient, with the first hour filled with the processional, speeches, and musical performances. The second hour was the presentation of diplomas, and the names were read one after another, with both sides of the stage going. I was expecting about an hour more [score!]

Brandon's mom and sisters were there, as well as Husband and I, Grandpa Lee, and Lucy. She made it through the entire thing with basically just her usual wiggles. I was poised the entire ceremony to get a photo of Brandon receiving his diploma, but of course that very moment was when Lucy decided to fall into my shoulder. So it was a blurry mess, but as I told Brandon, I'm sure someone will try to sell us a photo. :)


As I sat in Lindbergh Center (the gym) I couldn't help but think about how we will likely be sitting here again in 16 years, and wondering how different things will be then. What will the world look like when this little one is ready to graduate?


We'll cross that bridge when we get to it...we are very proud of Brandon - now it's on to the next step!